There are many things in my life that I could have done differently, paths not taken, mistakes made, dreams delayed. Like most people, I have my share of regrets. But one thing I will never regret is choosing to love, protect, and prioritize my family.
I love my husband deeply. He’s not just my partner, but my best friend, my sounding board, and my support system. My children? They are my world. Watching them grow, laugh, and become their own people brings me more joy than I could have imagined. My sisters are my closest friends, and my mother, though we’re miles apart, is just a phone call away, and we talk often. These relationships are my heartbeat. They’re what ground me, inspire me, and give my life purpose.
Because family is so important to me, I plan for them.
Yes, I plan family into my calendar. Because without intentional time management, life has a way of running off without you. There is always more laundry to fold, another email to send, dishes to clean, errands to run. The doing never ends. But relationships need tending too, and they deserve a space on the calendar just like everything else.
Every week, I time block for my family.
We plan simple activities: walks, hikes, fishing trips, or just grabbing dinner at our favorite restaurant.
Even on the uneventful days, we gather at the dinner table. No phones, no distractions, just connection.
We hold family meetings: yes, even the kids come. We talk about what’s going on in everyone’s life, what’s working, what’s not, and how we can support each other.
I plan downtime and fun time, because joy isn’t just something we stumble into, it’s something we make space for.
Family doesn’t always mean blood. Maybe for you, it’s a spouse or partner. Maybe it’s your children, your parents, a lifelong friend, a beloved pet, or even your faith community. Whoever your people are, make time for them.
We need both solitude and companionship. We need time to rest, and we need time to love and be loved. Don’t let the busyness of life rob you of what really matters.
Plan what matters. Time block what you love.
Because the greatest regret is not what we didn’t get done, but who we didn’t make time for.
Make space for love. Every day.
You’ll never regret it.
Reflection & Planning Prompts
- Who are the most important people in your life right now?
Write their names down and reflect on how often you intentionally make time for them.
- What are three simple activities you could plan this week to connect with your family (or chosen family)?
- Look at your calendar, have you made space for love and connection?
If not, where can you time block moments for dinner, conversation, or fun?
- When was the last time you had a meaningful conversation with someone you care about?
What would it take to make those conversations a regular part of your week?
- What traditions or routines could you create to bring your family closer together?
Think weekly dinners, Sunday walks, or Friday night check-ins.
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